Wedding Hair Tips

Bridal hairstyles need to reflect the brides’ personality and personal style. The “natural” days are finally ending as today’s bride looks for “more” from her wedding day salon services. More fun, more beauty, and more individuality are what brides are in search of. Creative personal touches help originate a “signature touch” for the couples’ big day.

Long Hair

If your hair is long and you wear it pulled back most of the time than an elegant Updo would be just the look. Incorporate a detail from your gown into your hair design. Details such as braiding or twisting of fabric can be duplicated into the hairstyle. Or look to the texture of the dress.

A soft wispy hairstyle complements a full-skirted tulle gown. A smooth gown of a heavy weight fabric is complemented by a smooth, shiny hairstyle of knots or rolls. Do you wear your long hair down most of the time? Then try wearing some of it up away from your face and leave the rest to cascade around your shoulders. Let few tendrils escape to float around your face, they can be curled or left natural. Having it all down is just too casual for the big day.

Tip: Natural curls? Enhance them and work with them; keep your look soft. Straight hair? Don’t expect a set to last all day, wear it up. If the curls are pinned in place there will be less worry.

Medium Hair

If your hair is medium in length it can be curled and worn with a sparkly headband or tiara to dress it up. Or simply tuck some hair behind your ears and use one of the very popular decorative hair clips to hold it back. With the help of a talented stylist, your hair can also be worn up.

Tip: If your dream is to wear it up and you have a few months grow it out, go for it. Medium hair is versatile, try a few looks with your stylist at least a few months ahead of time. This helps to chart out the growing process.

Short Hair

Believe me there is lots that can be done! Dust off your curling iron and give your hair some fullness in the crown area and back. Don’t curl the front, it won’t look like you. Flatter fronts are in right now so sweep the hair off to the side and save the curls for the back area. Today’s “curls” are for creating texture. Many hair products on the market are designed for “texturizing the hair” not necessarily for hold.

Tip: Don’t touch the curls while they are warm, it will loosen them up too much. Once cooled run your finger through your hair with some hair wax and pinch and place the “texture” where you want it! Don’t brush them out it will look too poufy, frizzy, and (Horror!) dated!! Top your do with a tiara or a few hair clips and you are ready to go!

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Tips for Getting Your Hair Done at the Salon

1. Schedule your wedding day hair appointment at least eight weeks ahead.

2. Have a practice session at least a month ahead and bring a picture of your dress and your headpiece with you to the salon.

3. Record your travel time from the salon to where you are getting dressed.

4. Add on extra time for getting dressed and make-up if the salon is not applying it.

5. Bring a Polaroid camera to your hair appointment and take pictures of the front, side, and back.

6. Ask for more than one stylist to help with the wedding party. Three stylists for a party of six is the best bet for staying on schedule.

7. Schedule all nail appointments for the day before, this also saves time.

8. Don’t expect to get your favorite stylist to do your wedding hair is you desire an intricate Updo. This is a specialty service and best left for the resident expert.

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Choosing a China Pattern

Choosing a china pattern is not always easy. Some brides feel more pressure about this decision because it is an “investment” and as your mother always says “It’s something that you’ll have for the rest of your life”. How do you know that you will still like that same pattern ten years from now or even next year?

Well, don’t worry, here are some hints to help you when selecting your fine china.

First, let’s talk about the basics. There are two types of fine china – bone china and porcelain china. Bone china is made with bone ash and porcelain is made from refined white clay. Both types of china are just as beautiful and although they may look delicate, they are actually quite strong and durable. Most fine china (except ones with gold or silver accents and trim) can even be placed in the dishwasher. But of course, you’ll always want to read the care instructions before doing so.

Some brides like to choose a simple white pattern for their everyday dinnerware and a more colorful and bright pattern for their china or vise versa. When it’s time to register for your china or dinnerware, if you’re not sure about your color scheme yet – go with white or ivory. You can always add color (and change colors) with interesting table accessories, candles, flowers and table linens.

Today, there are so many colorful patterns to choose from when selecting your dinnerware patterns. The department and specialty stores know exactly how to display these designs to make a table look so appealing! But remember, the only thing missing in those beautiful displays is the FOOD! So, before you make your selection – visualize how that bright floral green pattern will look with a piece of lasagna!

Sometimes if a pattern is too busy it can take away from the presentation of the food. For instance, most restaurants serve their food on white or ivory dinnerware. So, if you like the colorful patterns, a good compromise it to choose a pattern with a colorful border and trim and solid white middle.

When it comes to table settings, you should register for at least eight, but preferably twelve. Twelve may sound like a lot right now, but don’t worry over time – you’ll use them!

Now, your mother has probably told you that china is to be used for only special occasions. But, what could be more special than dinner or breakfast with your husband? And what about dinner with your friends? So, once you do decide on your china pattern, use it often and enjoy!

Questions to Ask Yourself and Your Fiance Before Selecting Your China

Talk with your fiance about setting up your home and about each other’s tastes and preferences and try to answer these questions:

*What is your favorite color?

*What is your finance’s favorite color?

*Do you have a favorite color together?

*Do you have a color scheme for your dining room?

*Will you have a formal dining area?

Now let’s think about your lifestyle and personality and ask yourself some more questions:

*Do you have a more elegant or casual style?

*Are you more traditional or contemporary?

*Do you prefer vibrant, bright colors or more muted pastels?

*Do you prefer a very simple looking table setting?

*Do you prefer a more adorned and rich look with lots of color, pattern and texture?

*Do you prefer things that take minimal care and are easy to clean (i.e. dishwasher safe?)

HINT: You may use your china more if it is easier to clean and take care of.

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Gift and Wedding Registry – Where to Begin

How Do I Begin?

Before you start to register, talk with your fiancé about your lifestyle, preferences and personalities. Here are some questions you both you answer:

* Do you prefer a casual or a more elegant style?
* Do you prefer things simple or more elaborate?
* How would you describe your tastes? Contemporary? Modern? Country? Victorian?
* Do you prefer lots of vibrant color or soft pastels?
* Do you prefer lots of intricate patterns or simpler designs?
* Do you know what your fiancé’s favorite color is?
* Do you have a favorite color together?
* Do you prefer things that are convenient, easy to use and easy to clean?

Once you and your fiancé have talked about some of the general preferences outlined above (and hopefully agreed on a few…) then, you’re ready to start selecting items for your registry.

If you are going to register for kitchen and tableware items, it is best to start with your dishes first. Your dishes, whether it’s casual dinnerware or fine china, will be the focal point of your table setting. Then, move on to choose your coordinating flatware and glassware.

When Should I Register?

It’s recommended to register 4-6 months prior to your wedding date. It’s also a good idea to check back with the store occasionally and at least a month before the wedding to make sure that the items you selected are still available and in stock. It is also a great time to select some new “seasonal” merchandise to add to your registry.

What Should I Register For?

Select a wide variety of merchandise. No longer is it just about choosing china, crystal and linens. Today, couples are getting married later in life and many already have the basic kitchen and home items. So instead, couples are registering for recreational items from camping gear to in-line skates and even computer equipment.

Take a look at USABride’s Registry Checklists to help give you some ideas of all of the items you can register for.

Also, be sure to register for items in wide range of prices to ensure that everyone can take part in your wedding registry regardless of their budget.

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Flatware Registry Tips

*When choosing your flatware pattern, here are a few things to think about in terms of your style and preferences:

Do like simple lines or a more intricate pattern?
Do you like soft curves or more pronounced edges?
Do you like flatware that feels “heavier” or very light?
Is the flatware dishwasher safe?
Does your formal flatware require any polishing or other special maintenance?

* If you are choosing a very elaborate design for your dishes and glassware, you may want to go with a simpler style for your flatware.

*Register for at least eight, but preferably twelve. It may sound like a lot right now, but don’t worry – you’ll use them!

*Register for the same number of place settings as your dinnerware and glassware. The only exception – if you are registering for less than twelve place settings – you may want to register for extra spoons. That is usually the most “used” utensil and the one you run out of the most too.

*Always pick up the flatware in your hands and feel it. Pick up all the utensils (fork, knife and spoon) and make sure it feels comfortable in both your hands and your fiances’ hands.

*You should register for at least one “Hostess Set” which includes one large serving spoon, a serving ladle and sugar spoon and one “Serving Set” which includes a serving fork, butter knife and pierced serving spoon.

*To add elegance to your formal dinning, consider registering for flatware that has gold accents or is gold plated.

* You want your dinnerware, glassware and flatware to all coordinate. Sometimes it is hard to imagine how all of the items will look together when they are displayed in different shelves through out the store. So, ask for assistance from a sales associate and set up a complete table setting including your dinnerware, flatware and glassware.

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The Rose Ceremony

The Rose Ceremony is simple yet profoundly moving. The bride and groom exchange two red roses, symbolizing the giving and receiving of their love for each other throughout their entire married life. The Rose Ceremony also conveys how to use the rose and its symbolism in difficult times in order to forgive each other.

“Your gift to each other for your wedding today has been your wedding rings – which shall always be an outward demonstration of your vows of love and respect; and a public showing of your commitment to each other.

You now have what remains the most honorable title which may exist between a man and a woman – the title of “husband” and “wife.” For your first gift as husband and wife, that gift will be a single rose.

In the past, the rose was considered a symbol of love and a single rose always meant only one thing – it meant the words “I love you.” So it is appropriate that for your first gift – as husband and wife – that gift would be a single rose.

Please exchange your first gift as husband and wife. In some ways it seems like you have not done anything at all. Just a moment ago you were holding one small rose – and now you are holding one small rose. In some ways, a marriage ceremony is like this. In some ways, tomorrow is going to seem no different than yesterday. But in fact today, just now, you both have given and received one of the most valuable and precious gifts of life – one I hope you always remember – the gift of true and abiding love within the devotion of marriage.

_________ and _____________, I would ask that where ever you make your home in the future – whether it be a large and elegant home – or a small and graceful one – that you both pick one very special location for roses; so that on each anniversary of this truly wonderful occasion you both may take a rose to that spot both as a recommitment to your marriage – and a recommitment that THIS will be a marriage based upon love.

In every marriage there are times where it is difficult to find the right words. It is easiest to hurt who we most love. It is easiest to be most hurt by who we most love. It might be difficult some time to words to say “I am sorry” or “I forgive you”; “I need you” or “I am hurting”. If this should happen, if you simply can not find these words, leave a rose at that spot which both of you have selected – for that rose than says what matters most of all and should overpower all other things and all other words.

That rose says the words: “I still love you.” The other should accept this rose for the words which cannot be found, and remember the love and hope that you both share today.

__________ and ________, if there is anything you remember of this marriage ceremony, it is that it was love that brought you here today, it is only love which can make it a glorious union, and it is by love which your marriage shall endure.”

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Best & Worst Thing About My Wedding

This is my favorite feature at USABride. I love to hear the “real life” advice from brides… there is no better advice out there! ~ Bridal Stylist and Founder of USABride, Dareth Colburn

Submitted by Melissa (Boston, MA)

Best Thing About My Wedding:

* A Music Video — We did a funny video set to a Harry Connick Jr. song (We Are In Love), and “recreated” our first meeting (we met on the Internet) and us having fun on the beach. Our guests really dug it!
* Personalize your vows for the ceremony.
* Give out personalized candy bars that have been designed on the computer.
* Have a sign-in photo as guests entered the reception!

What I Would Do Differently:

* Never forget to double check your rehearsal dinner reservations!
* We ended up being shoved into tables in the middle of the restaurant, where it was too noisy!
* Don’t “under-buy” favors bubbles, cameras, etc. Always buy extra just in case

. . . .

Submitted by Kelley (Boulder, CO)

Best Thing About My Wedding:

My husband John has a six-year-old daughter from a previous marriage. I really wanted to include her on our special day, so I gave our Pastor special vows for she and I to exchange. John then placed a gold heart pendant around her neck, and I said “With this heart, I promise to be a loving and caring step-mommy to you. I promise to always be there for you in times of need and I will love you with all my heart for all the days of my life”. There wasn’t a dry eye in the house, including mine and hers. Arianna is a wonderful addition to my life and I was glad I could show her how much she means to me.

What I Would Do Differently:

I would not have done the Money Dance. I can’t believe how awkward I felt. Originally, I said that I didn’t want to do it, but all my friends kept telling me how great the extra money was on their Honeymoons. I could have done without the extra money and the embarrassment of the DJ asking people to come and dance with you. Oh yeah, and bring a $20 would ya? Yikes!!!

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Top Tips for the Beach Bride

1. Gowns

Beach weddings are somewhere tropical, so search for a beach wedding dress that is light, cobeach-bridemfortable and airy—such as a silk, chiffon, or organdy, or Chantilly lace. Sandals gowns are a popular choice. Depending on your personal style, there are loads of options for color, length and design. Let your personality shine, but keep it simple! Some important tips:

If you will be standing directly on the beach, avoid a dress with a train. It can get really dingy looking and ruin your entire look.

Always pack your dress and the rest of all your wedding day accessories with you as carry on if you are flying. Lost luggage is the worst! You can replace everyday clothes, but not your gown!

2. Hairstyles and Headpieces

When thinking about your beach wedding hairstyle, the key is to prepare and plan ahead. Consider the humidity of the destination? The wind? There’s nothing like a hair disaster to send you into a tail spin on your wedding day. Here’s some of our suggestions for getting your hair right at your beach wedding:

To avoid humidity frizz, The Classic Bun – a ponytail woven around itself into a tight bun, works great. Hair pins or a back comb in the bun can be just stunning—understated yet still eye-catching! starfish-comb

If you want to go more casual, The High Ponytail with tons of tosseled or loose curls could be just the thing. Even if it is windy, it doesn’t matter! Mini combs, like a tiny pearl starfish on the side, is a lovely accessory for this style. A whimsical silk flower, feather comb or rhinestone encrusted barrette would also be simple and chic.

Leave it down! Go for a very natural look by leaving your hair down—either straight or loose curls. A great way to avoid the wind whipping hair in your face is to choose a simple bridal headband.

3. Veil or no Veil?

Should you wear a veil at a beach wedding? Sure you can! This is a matter of personal taste, but it can definitely be done. You want to go with a more traditional veil as opposed to something with a great deal of beading, as it would be heavier and not flow as nicely in the wind.

Length is also very important to consider. Steer clear of cathedral veils for a beach wedding. Not only will the veil get soiled from dragging in the sand, but it could be very unmanageable—especially in windy conditions.

4. Jewelry

Pearl Jewelry is always a stunning addition to the beach look. This year, natural organic stones are where it is! Freshwater Pearls are classic and perfect for that seaside feel.

If you want something with a bit more flair, go for the semi-precious, hand cultivated Japanese Keshi Pearls. They come in a stunning array of shapes and sizes, as well as colors and finishes. Being 100% made by mother nature, Keshis have a mesmerizing luster and their irregular shapes just accentuate their glow.

5. Make-up

The key to a great beach wedding day look is to go easy and fresh. You really want it to look like you have that sun-kissed natural glow. Choose light shimmering shadows and liners, also, a nude lip color is a must to complete the look!

To relieve stress you can have a makeup artist do your wedding day makeup. If you enjoy doing your own makeup but need some more tips, visit a makeup consultant before the trip.

6. Shoes

Pair this look with a fabulous pair of sandals or flip-flops that compliment your gown, or, just go barefoot! Avoid heals at all cost! You don’t want to get stuck in the sand!

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10 Tips for Great Bridal Hair

Following these top ten tips for perfect “I do” hairdos.

1. Six months before the wedding, have a major consultation with your stylist of choice. Bring along the headpiece and a picture of the dress if possible. The more the stylist knows about the mood of the wedding, the better he or she can create the perfect hairstyle.

2. Do not use the portrait session as the “dress rehearsal.” There should actually be a “test run” for the portrait.

3. During the “test run,” walk around with the hairstyle you plan to wear to determine its comfort level. A good rule is: the simpler, the better, since pins can hurt, and intricate styles are often delicate.

4. Consider the time of day and type of wedding when choosing a style. Loose styles are appropriate for informal or daytime weddings, while updos portray a formal, evening look.

5. Remember that some hairstyles can add inches to a bride’s height, and shorter brides may want to use this to their advantage.

6. Do not have any chemical treatments the day of the wedding. That is not the time for surprises!

7. Hair color looks its best its first two weeks, so have hair colored a week to two weeks before the wedding.

8. If a permanent wave is necessary, have it done a month prior to the wedding.

9. Hair that is too fine and over-conditioned does not style well, so deep conditioning treatments should not be used within four days of the wedding. For best styling results, shampoo hair lightly the day before the wedding and, if possible, do not wash hair the day of the wedding.

10. Stylists and makeup artists do their best work in their own environments with their own tools, so have your wedding party meet at the salon a couple of hours before they need to be at the ceremony for pictures. This increases efficiency, (and usually costs less!)

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5 Wedding Day Hair Styles

Bridal Hair Styles: Classic Bridal Updo

Classic Wedding Updo

Sophisticated updos are always a popular choice, with curls and twists providing a desired bridal look, especially for more formal weddings.

This style is best for hair that is medium in length (chin length or longer) and is straight and medium to thick. If you have fine hair you might be able to create the updo by using a pin-on ponytail or add-on extension.
Bridal Hair Styles: Modern Wedding Updo

Modern Up Do

The modern updo takes the very formal classic updo and adds a softer, more romantic look.

This tousled style can be achieved with hair of all lengths and textures using tiaras, combs, or hairpins. A good hairdresser always helps too!

Wedding Day Tip:
Always be sure to bring along extra bobby pins in case some hair falls out. If you start to comb it or use more hair spray, you will likely make it worse!

Bridal Hair Styles: Leaving it Long

Another popular trend is to wear your hair down in a sleek shiny look – straight or with romantic curls. Pull your hair half back in a “half-updo” for a more formal look.

A classic headband style tiara may be chosen for simple elegance, while many brides choose just a veil. A traditional bridal look can be achieved by combining a graceful tiara or headband with an elegant wedding veil. The veil can be easily removed after the ceremony.
Bridal Hair Styles: Short Styles

Short Wedding Hair Style

Brides with short hair used to struggle with elegant and creative wedding day hairstyles, but no longer! Fun, sophisticated and unique looks can be achieved with the help of some simple accessories.

Short hair looks stunning in a soft bob that is highlighted with a tiara, headband, or jeweled barrette. A beautiful and timeless look for short bridal hair is hair that is accentuated with well placed finger or Marcel type of waves.
Bridal Hair Styles: Curly and Wavy Hair

Curly Wedding Hair Style

Brides and attendants with naturally curly or wavy hair can adopt any style. In some cases, they will need to temporarily straighten their curls first in order to re-create the look.

The Double Asian Knot and Simply Elegant Updo could also be created, in a modified form without any special straightening for naturally curly hair.

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