Wedding gifts are great and wedding gifts are complicated. People will look at you like you’re a weirdo if you don’t register anywhere. People will talk about you behind your back if you register for anything they think is too expensive or not strictly wedding-y. People will go off-registry to buy wedding gifts, which is okay, and buy you all kinds of wacky stuff you’re going to immediately donate to charity, which is also okay.
If you want to ensure that no one buys you anything, feel free to put your registry information right on your wedding invitation. Ha ha, only kidding. If you do that, you’re also ensuring no RSVPs, no guests, and no big bash reception due to low attendance. HOWEVER, there is an easy workaround. You get yourself a wedding website – and there are like nine-hundred ways to do that, many for free – and put your wedding registry info, including links, right on your site. Since you’re using new-fangled tech, at least insofar as weddings are concerned since the pace of innovation moves like cold molasses in this sphere, you’re not technically* breaking any etiquette rules.
And now, in case you need reminding…
Things not to put on your registry:
- Your wedding dress and bridal jewelry.
- Your wedding night undies.
- A Bugatti Veyron EB 16.4 (sorry guys!)
- A standalone electric pizza cooker – I swear to Miss Manners you will never use this
- Personal lubricants
- Exotic animals
- Mail-order sister wives
All right, I’m being a little over the top – but I’d love to hear what you think should never, ever be on a wedding registry!
*See what I did there?